- You can not earn the love of someone, who doesn’t want to learn how to love you through consistent communication and intentional connection.
- The best way to move forward after a divorce is to focus on becoming a better you and creating new beautiful memories by finding a new passion.
- Male strippers are gnerally emotionally and relationally lazy
- Therapy is a lot cheaper than divorce
- Trust your instincts, if you feel you’re being scammed you probably are
- Forgiveness nor repentance mitigates all the consequences of sin.
- You don’t always get what you deserve in a relationship, you get what you allow–especially women.
- As a Christian if you have to choose between suicide, murder or divorce choose divorce. Statistically speaking God is more likely to resurrect a divorced marriage than a dead couple.
- Great sex doesn’t equal a great marriage no matter what society tells you. Sex too early in a relationship, will cause people to ignore clear red flags
- If a woman pays for the first date, that is usually a bad sign. Pay attention to how they handle money.
- If one of your ex’s shows up on your honeymoon that is a bad sign
- Even if your marriage is destroyed that doesn’t mean you have to allow your kids to be destroyed. Get a therapist to help them navigate their feelings and deal with your own. your emotional and spiritual health is the foundation for rehabbing your soul for a better tomorrow.
- Support groups are vital if no one around you has experienced divorce and provide biblically sound advice.
- Forgive backstabbers, but continue to keep them at distance if they are unrepentant
- Misogyny and patriarchy are serious demons in the church. You will regret staying at church that condones abuse.
- 9 times out of 10, the home was already wrecked so the only home wreckers are those who own the home.
- Two dysfunctional people can only make a dysfunctional marriage and often produce dysfunctional childern.
- Time doesn’t heal all wounds. How you spend the time determines how well you heal.
- There is a difference between dwelling on the past and having to deal with the on-going side effects of a divorce. Everytime you fill out certain forms, meet someone new until you are remarried, watch certain movies or tv shows, go to a wedding, help friends with their relationship issues, deal with your kids, there will be reminders that your are divorced.
- Assemblies of God is a very practical Christian denomination when it comes to broken relationships and people. They will walk with you and give you a path to healing, not pour salt in your wounds and make you feel less than because your marriage didn’t work out.
