You can not earn the love of someone, who doesn’t want to learn how to love you through consistent communication and intentional connection. The best way to move forward after a divorce is to focus on becoming a better you and creating new beautiful memories by finding a new passion. Male strippers are gnerally emotionally […]
I wrestle with the concept have I ever been in love. I have been exposed to many concepts of love. The Johanne Lindsey romance novel kind of love that is passionate and obessive. The artist/musician kind of love where it is polyamarous and confusing. It is conjured up by melodies. Then the “duty” marriage kind […]
I have alot of guy friends. I play trumpet and very few women do this. When I go to some jam sessions I am often either the only woman instrumentalist or only black woman. So having alot of male collegues is just par for the course. Some folks have a problem with understanding that being […]
I can’t speak on marriages of other faiths, but I have studied alot about Christian marriages and been apart of Christian community all my life. One thing I have noticed is the tremendous pressure Christians feel. There is this demand to be the 1st Century church the moment you accept Christ whether you are 5 […]
I appreciate the sound of wisdom that came from his voice. It resonated with truth and rang with the timber of conviction. It replaced the dissonance in my soul with sweet harmony It soothed away my despair and restored my hope It brought peace to my exsistence which had been ravaged by war Blessed is […]
I know I was not that special Just one out of many Just one out of the many women who gazed in your eyes Just one out of the many women who kissed your lips Just one out of the many women who let you hold her and whisper in her ear Just one out […]
I miss you so dearly. Not sure what I was supposed to learn. It seems when I try to find balance and not give too much I still lose. I let you into places in my heart where very few have gone. Perhaps where I shouldnt have let you in. I have to forgive myself, […]
The cost of peace and growth has always been pain. We come in this world through a painful process. In a year I have made some MAJOR transitions. I went from a full time jazz student to a game/web developer of a major coporation that also manages 800 websites. My personal company also grew from […]
Dear Charmaine, You opened up your heart to him because you truly cared. You didn’t expect anything in return, just wanted him to be happy and at peace. You can’t help that your life at times becomes demanding and you can’t be the strong one in the relationship all the time. At those moments […]
I will never regret this day. Its the day I committed to the world that it would have one of the finest doctors on the planet and that Cameroon would have the healer it deserves.