There has been alot of talk about the female gold digger. Rarely do people talk about the male gold digger. Being a proud woman I took issue when folks said that I was riding the coat tails of my ex husband who is now a decorated physician in the military. But lets check the facts […]
He held me in his arms and whispered his dreams in my ear. Painting a blueprint for a kingdom where compassion reigned and justice ruled. Villages headed by healing men and nuturing women. Melodies that inspired and instructed on every radio. Children filled with hope and pride. Families designed to encourage and to uplift each […]
I once heard this saying “Men don’t heal they ho”. After having alot of guy friends I realize that men are just as sensitive as women but simply process pain and cope differently. When a woman is hurt she will open up to another woman. When a man is hurt, he is not calling his […]
You were a light that created a beautiful optical illusion. When I was thirsty in the desert, you were a mirage. When I needed to dream , you were my fantasy. But illusions, mirages and fantasies only distract from the reality. That the distance between my heart and yours is more than just miles. While […]
You and I are experiencing growing pains. And while this pain is healthy, it’s still pain nonetheless. Because you and I are soldiers of love with scars that ache and with wounds that have yet to heal. Yet somehow we find the strength to fight for a valient cause: a future filled with a healthier […]
No matter what the grass is never fully greener on the other side of the fence. Both sides of the fence has rough patches. Of course this precludes straight out abuse & cheating. Why ? Because somethings are just par for the course in a relationship. Miscommunication Balancing needs Conflicts No matter how perfect a […]
In the past week I have been struggling with the issue of patience. Maybe because I feel the pressure to make an important decision and not hurt anyones feelings. At the same time I am wondering if its simply that I am not getting legitimate needs met. And I think that is the forever tension […]
Dear Lord, Thank you for placing such a noble & kind heart into my hands. Now give me the wisdom to speak words of peace to him when he is in the midst of a storm. Words of joy when he is filled with sorrow. Words of comfort when he is downtrodden and words […]
I have never wanted to be the bitter angry woman. Anger has never felt good to me. Being fearful and suspicious has never felt good to me either. My taste for peace and love was cultivated by worshipping in church. Nothing feels as good to me as true worship and I HATE when I am […]
if people need emotional support but dont want to invest in a relationship…hire a therapist. Every relationship costs something but you determine the currency of what it costs to be in one with you.